Thursday, December 1, 2022

Coffee Gives Sprinters a Head Start

The Think Drink can shorten your time in the 100-yard dash:

"As measures of performance, the researchers measured the sprint velocity and calculated the sprint time. On discounting the effects of environmental factors, the corrected sprint time was used to examine the effects of caffeine supplementation.

"The results revealed that the corrected 100-m sprint time was shortened significantly for athletes who received caffeine, with a decrease of 0.14 seconds compared to the controls. This decrease in the time was largely associated with a decrease in sprint time for the first 60 meters of the sprint."

Interesting, though I am rarely in such a hurry.

How Many Stars? How Many Molecules?

Not sure how many stars there are in the universe, I asked Dr. Google, and found a wide range of estimates, but this site seemed relatively reliable:

https://www.worldatlas.com/space/how-many-stars-are-there.html

Two trillion (2 x 10^12) galaxies and an average of 100 billion (1 x 10^11) stars per galaxy gives about 2 x 10^23 stars, give or take a few powers of ten:

200,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 stars

6 x 10^23 is Avogadro's number, the number of molecules in a mole of a substance. A mole of water is H2O = 18 g, so 1/3 of a mole would match the star count, and that is 6 cubic cm of water, about 1/5 of an ounce!

This makes me think: our ideas about the origins of the universe, 14 billion years ago, via the Big Bang, have a lot to explain.

Wednesday, September 21, 2022

Track: Correlating Running Times versus Distance

Dear Long-Distance-Runner Nephew, William:

Thinking about how to model expected running times (T, sec) versus distance (D, m),

I figured the relationship might be:

T sec = (10 sec) (D / 100 m)^b

Where b would be b=1.0 if you could run the entire distance at the same speed you ran the 100 m.

I expected fatigue would make b>1.0, but I did not know how much greater.

I consulted the internet:

there the exponent was found to be b = 1.1 from 100m to 10 km.

The best world-record coefficient (e.g., 10 s) might be Bolt’s 9.6 s for the 100 m, but

I was most interested in the exponent, the dependence of time on distance.

In high school, I ran the mile in about 5 minutes = 300 sec.

My pitiful 100-yard dash time was about 12 sec.

The ratio of these times was about (300/12) = 25.0.

The ratio of the distances was mile/dash = (5280/300) = 17.6

Which predicts a time ratio of (17.6)^1.1 = 23.4

not too different from 25.0,  assuming my approximate 12 s estimate.

For non-record-holders like myself, expect our times vs. our distances to go as

(T/To) = (D/Do)^1.1.

So, as you go from 6 k to 8 k, for example, you would expect a ratio of the times of about

(8/6)^1.1 = 1.37.

A 6k time of 21 minutes would be about 21.0 x 1.37 = 28.8 minutes, rather than simply (8/6)(21.0)=28.0. The extra 0.8 of a minute is 48 seconds.

Doubling the distance would tend to increase the time by the multiplier (2)^1.1=2.14, which is 7% longer than 2.0.

To some degree, goals like these target times can be helpful.

At other times, they might be unrealistic, too easy, or too hard.

They are interesting, though. (I was sort of a theoretical miler.)

I view this as a way to judge the likely impact of distance on your time,

rather than a way to compare oneself against world record holders.

Saturday, September 17, 2022

WRITING BETTER ENGLISH, WEEK 11

WRITING BETTER ENGLISH, WEEK 11

Persuasion:

ETHOS – AUTHORITY, REPUTATION, ACHIEVEMENT, INSIGHT

LOGOS - REASON

PATHOS – EMOTION

- STRUNK AND WHITE, from THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE

- EMERSON, from “SELF-RELIANCE”

-FROST, POETRY, ”The Oven Bird”

LAST WEEK’S ASSIGNMENT, 150-250 WORDS ON BROWNING’S “MY LAST DUCHESS’

NEXT WEEK’S ASSIGNMENT, 150-250 W0RDS

FROST’S ‘The Oven Bird” or on a quote from Emerson, 150-250 words

https://www.moralapologetics.com/wordpress/what-to-make-of-a-diminished-thing-poeticizing-the-fall-part-1-of-2

In his poem “The Oven Bird,” Frost uses the theological tropes of the Fall along with natural revelation to give new meaning to the natural world of the poem while also continuing to develop metaphorical poetics in which meaning itself must be both natural and supernatural. Frost displays remarkable poetic dexterity by both theologizing and naturalizing the act of this common bird’s call.

There is a singer everyone has heard,

Loud, a mid-summer and a mid-wood bird,

Who makes the solid tree trunks sound again.

He says that leaves are old and that for flowers

Mid-summer is to spring as one to ten.

He says the early petal-fall is past

When pear and cherry bloom went down in showers

On sunny days a moment overcast;

And comes that other fall we name the fall.

He says the highway dust is over all.

The bird would cease and be as other birds

But that he knows in singing not to sing.

The question that he frames in all but words

Is what to make of a diminished thing.

THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE, CONTINUED

IV. WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS COMMONLY MISUSED

“any body” means “any corpse. ”Use “anybody.”

“as good or better than.” Use “as good as, if not better.

“As yet.” Use “yet.”.”

“no” doubt but that” use “no doubt that

“Certainly” often over-used.

“Comprise” means embrace or include.

“Currently” is often reeundant.

“Data” is a plural noun. “Datum” is singular.

“disinterested” is impartial. “Uninterested” bored.

ESSAY, "SELF-RELIANCE," RALPH WALDO EMERSON

FIFTEENTH PARAGRAPH Ending

We pass for what we are.

Character teaches above our wills.

Men imagine that they communicate their virtue or vice only by overt actions, and do not see that virtue or vice emit a breath every moment.

SIXTEENTH PARAGRAPH (BROKEN INTO SENTENCES)

Fear never but you shall be consistent in whatever variety of actions, so they be each honest and natural in their hour.

For of one will, the actions will be harmonious, however unlike they seem.

These varieties are lost sight of when seen at a little distance, at a little height of thought. One tendency unites them all.

The voyage of the best ship is a zigzag line of a hundred tacks. This is only microscopic criticism. See the line from a sufficient distance, and it straightens itself to the average tendency.

Your genuine action will explain itself and will explain your other genuine actions. Your conformity explains nothing.

Act singly, and what you have already done singly will justify you now.

Greatness always appeals to the future. If I can be great enough now to do right and scorn eyes, I must have done so much right before as to defend me now.

Be it how it will, do right now. Always scorn appearances and you always may. The force of character is cumulative. All the foregone days of virtue work their health into this.

What makes the majesty of the heroes of the senate and the field, which so fills the imagination? The consciousness of a train of great days and victories behind.

There they all stand and shed an united light on the advancing actor. He is attended as by a visible escort of angels to every man’s eye.

That is it which throws thunder into Chatham’s voice, and dignity into Washington’s port, and America into Adams’s eye.

Honor is venerable to us because it is no ephemeris. It is always ancient virtue.

We worship it to-day because it is not of to-day. We love it and pay it homage because it is not a trap for our love and homage, but is self-dependent, selfderived, and therefore of an old immaculate pedigree, even if shown in a young person.

REMINDER  / REVIEW

Chapter Titles from THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win/Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Habit 6: Synergize Habit

7: Sharpen the Saw

WRITING ASSIGNMENT:  150-250 WORDS ON AN EMERSON QUOTE OR ON FROST’S “THE OVEN BIRD”

My other coaching site is WRITE YOUR BOOK WITH ME

Sunday, September 11, 2022

WRITING BETTER ENGLISH, WEEK 10

Persuasion:

ETHOS – AUTHORITY, REPUTATION, ACHIEVEMENT, INSIGHT

LOGOS - REASON

PATHOS – EMOTION

- STRUNK AND WHITE, from THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE

- EMERSON, from “SELF-RELIANCE”

-BROWNING, POETRY, ”My Last Duchess”

LAST WEEK’S ASSIGNMENT, 150-250 WORDS ON FROST’S “A TIME TO TALK” OR ON A PARAGRAPH FROM EMERSON:

NEXT WEEK’S ASSIGNMENT, 150-250 W0RDS ON BROWNING’S “My Last Duchess”

My Last Duchess

FERRARA

That’s my last Duchess painted on the wall,

Looking as if she were alive. I call

That piece a wonder, now; Fra Pandolf’s hands

Worked busily a day, and there she stands.

Will’t please you sit and look at her? I said

“Fra Pandolf” by design, for never read

Strangers like you that pictured countenance,

The depth and passion of its earnest glance,

But to myself they turned (since none puts by

The curtain I have drawn for you, but I)

And seemed as they would ask me, if they durst,

How such a glance came there; so, not the first

Are you to turn and ask thus. Sir, ’twas not

Her husband’s presence only, called that spot

Of joy into the Duchess’ cheek; perhaps

Fra Pandolf chanced to say, “Her mantle laps

Over my lady’s wrist too much,” or “Paint

Must never hope to reproduce the faint

Half-flush that dies along her throat.” Such stuff

Was courtesy, she thought, and cause enough

For calling up that spot of joy. She had

Too easily impressed; she liked whate’er

She looked on, and her looks went everywhere.

Sir, ’twas all one! My favour at her breast,

The dropping of the daylight in the West,

The bough of cherries some officious fool

Broke in the orchard for her, the white mule

She rode with round the terrace—all and each

Would draw from her alike the approving speech,

Or blush, at least. She thanked men—good! but thanked

Somehow—I know not how—as if she ranked

My gift of a nine-hundred-years-old name

With anybody’s gift. Who’d stoop to blame

This sort of trifling? Even had you skill

In speech—which I have not—to make your will

Quite clear to such an one, and say, “Just this

Or that in you disgusts me; here you miss,

Or there exceed the mark”—and if she let

Herself be lessoned so, nor plainly set

Her wits to yours, forsooth, and made excuse—

E’en then would be some stooping; and I choose

Never to stoop. Oh, sir, she smiled, no doubt,

Whene’er I passed her; but who passed without

Much the same smile? This grew; I gave commands;

Then all smiles stopped together. There she stands

As if alive. Will’t please you rise? We’ll meet

The company below, then. I repeat,

The Count your master’s known munificence

Is ample warrant that no just pretense

Of mine for dowry will be disallowed;

Though his fair daughter’s self, as I avowed

At starting, is my object. Nay, we’ll go

Together down, sir. Notice Neptune, though,

Taming a sea-horse, thought a rarity,

Which Claus of Innsbruck cast in bronze for me!

THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE, CONTINUED

IV. WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS COMMONLY MISUSED

“The truth is…,” “The fact is…, “Honestly…”  Just state it!

“They” Not with “each” “every” nor when it should be singular, “He” or “she.”

“This” often obscures what the reference is.

Try and mend it” should be “Try to mend it.”
“Unique” does not have degrees of being unique.

“Utilize” is grandiose “use.”

ESSAY, "SELF-RELIANCE," RALPH WALDO EMERSON

FOURTEENTH PARAGRAPH

Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.

FIFTEENTH PARAGRAPH

I suppose no man can violate his nature.

All the sallies of his will are rounded in by the law of his being, as the inequalities of Andes and Himmaleh are insignificant in the curve of the sphere.

Nor does it matter how you gauge and try him.

A character is like an acrostic or Alexandrian stanza;—read it forward, backward, or across, it still spells the same thing.

In this pleasing contrite wood-life which God allows me, let me record day by day my honest thought without prospect or retrospect, and I cannot doubt, it will be found symmetrical, though I mean it not and see it not.

My book should smell of pines and resound with the hum of insects.

The swallow over my window should interweave that thread or straw he carries in his bill into my web also.

We pass for what we are.

Character teaches above our wills.

Men imagine that they communicate their virtue or vice only by overt actions, and do not see that virtue or vice emit a breath every moment.

REMINDER  / REVIEW

Chapter Titles from THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win/Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw

WRITING ASSIGNMENT: 150-250 W0RDS ON BROWNING’S “My Last Duchess”

Queen or King – As sovereign, the King or Queen outranks everyone

Queen Consort – The Queen Consort is the wife of the King

Apart from the monarch and their spouse, the titles are:

·         Duke or Duchess

·         Marquess or Marchioness

·         Earl or Countess

·         Viscount or Viscountess

·         Baron or Baroness

Sunday, August 28, 2022

WRITING BETTER ENGLISH, WEEK 9

WRITING BETTER ENGLISH – PERSUASION:

ETHOS – AUTHORITY, REPUTATION, ACHIEVEMENT, INSIGHT

LOGOS – EVIDENCE, REASON

PATHOS – EMOTION

RESOURCES

- STRUNK AND WHITE, THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE

- Macbeth book

THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE, CONTINUED

IV. WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS COMMONLY MISUSED

Nice (best use: precise: “a nice distinction”)

Split infinitive (only to emphasize the adverb) “to quietly go”

Than (often ambiguous) “I am closer to my father than (to) my mother.”

That vs which: “that” is restrictive,

“The plow that is broken is in the garage.”

“which” is not restrictive,

The plow, which is broken, is in the garage.”

ESSAY, "SELF-RELIANCE," RALPH WALDO EMERSON

TENTH TO FOURTEENTH PARAGRAPHS

The other terror that scares us from self-trust is our consistency; a reverence for our past act or word because the eyes of others have no other data for computing our orbit than our past acts, and we are loath to disappoint them.

Suppose you should contradict yourself; what then? It seems to be a rule of wisdom never to rely on your memory alone, scarcely even in acts of pure memory, but to bring the past for judgment into the thousand eyed present, and live ever in a new day.

Trust your emotion. In your metaphysics you have denied personality to the Deity, yet when the devout motions of the soul come, yield to them heart and life, though they should clothe God with shape and color. Leave your theory, as Joseph his coat in the hand of the harlot, and flee.

A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines.

With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall.

Out upon your guarded lips! Sew them up with packthread, do. Else if you would be a man speak what you think to-day in words as hard as cannon balls, and to-morrow speak what to-morrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said to-day.

Ah, then, exclaim the aged ladies, you shall be sure to be misunderstood! Misunderstood! It is a right fool’s word. Is it so bad then to be misunderstood?

Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.

REMINDER  / REVIEW

Chapter Titles from THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win/Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw

WRITING ASSIGNMENT:

Macbeth book choice

customer Review

Reviewed in the United States on August 27, 2022
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The writing is clear and persuasive and well-documented.

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Friday, August 19, 2022

SUPER GRANDSON:

WRITING BETTER ENGLISH, WEEK 8

PERSUASION KEYS:

ETHOS – AUTHORITY, REPUTATION, ACHIEVEMENT, INSIGHT

LOGOS - REASON

PATHOS – EMOTION

SOURCES:

- STRUNK AND WHITE, THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE

- EMERSON, “SELF-RELIANCE”

- FROST, POETRY, “Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening”

- THIS WEEK’S WRITING ASSIGNMENT: 150-250 WORDS ON FROST’S ”STOPPING BY WOODS ON A SNOWY EVENING.”

LAST WEEK’S WRITING ASSIGNMENT: 150-250 WORDS ON FROST’S “Paul’s Wife

THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE, CONTINUED

IV. WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS COMMONLY MISUSED

Leave, let: "Let it alone."

Less, fewer: "More or less; many or fewer."

Like, as: prepositional phrase, clause

Loan (n), lend (v)

Partly, partially: a part of a whole, to a certain degree

Firstly, first; secondly, second…

I or we shall, you will, he or she will (1st person future, 2nd, 3rd)

ESSAY, "SELF-RELIANCE," RALPH WALDO EMERSON

PENULTIMATE LINES from EIGHTH PARAGRAPH

There is a mortifying experience in particular, which does not fail to wreak itself also in the general history; I mean “the foolish face of praise,” the forced smile which we put on in company where we do not feel at ease, in answer to conversation which does not interest us.

NINTH PARAGRAPH

For non-conformity, the world whips you with its displeasure.

And therefore a man must know how to estimate a sour face.

The bystanders look askance on him in the public street or in the friend’s parlor.

If this aversion had its origin in contempt and resistance like his own he might well go home with a sad countenance; but the sour faces of the multitude, like their sweet faces, have no deep cause—disguise no god, but are put on and off as the wind blows and a newspaper directs.

Yet is the discontent of the multitude more formidable than that of the senate and the college.

It is easy enough for a firm man who knows the world to brook the rage of the cultivated classes.

Their rage is decorous and prudent, for they are timid, as being very vulnerable themselves.

But when to their feminine rage the indignation of the people is added, when the ignorant and the poor are aroused, when the unintelligent brute force that lies at the bottom of society is made to growl and mow, it needs the habit of magnanimity and religion to treat it godlike as a trifle of no concernment.

Frost’s “Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening

Whose woods these are I think I know.
His house is in the village, though;
He will not see me stopping here
To watch his woods fill up with snow.
My little horse must think it queer
To stop without a farmhouse near
Between the woods and frozen lake
The darkest evening of the year.

He gives his harness bells a shake
To ask if there is some mistake.
The only other sound's the sweep
Of easy wind and downy flake.
The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep,
And miles to go before I sleep,
And miles to go before I sleep.

REMINDER  / REVIEW

Chapter Titles from THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win/Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw

WRITING ASSIGNMENTS:

150-250 WORDS ON FROST’S ”STOPPING BY WOODS ON A SNOWY EVENING.”

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Sunday, August 14, 2022

WRITING BETTER ENGLISH, WEEK 7

PERSUASION:

ETHOS – AUTHORITY, REPUTATION, ACHIEVEMENT, INSIGHT

LOGOS - REASON

PATHOS – EMOTION

- STRUNK AND WHITE, THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE

- EMERSON, “SELF-RELIANCE”

- FROST, POETRY, “Paul’s Wife” Excerpt

- WEEKLY SHORT ASSIGNMENT: Discuss “Paul’s Wife” Excerpt

LAST WEEK’S WRITING ASSIGNMENT: 150-250 WORDS ON: KIPLING’S “IF”

THE ELEMENTS OF STYLE, CONTINUED

IV. WORDS AND EXPRESSIONS COMMONLY MISUSED

Fact vs. opinion

Farther (distance) vs. further (time or amount)

Folks (too colloquial)

He is [a man who]

Imply (suggest) vs. infer (deduce)

Interesting [show rather than claim this]

ESSAY, "SELF-RELIANCE," RALPH WALDO EMERSON

LAST LINES from SEVENTH PARAGRAPH

It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.

EIGHTH PARAGRAPH (Broken into sentences):

The objection to conforming to usages that have become dead to you is that it scatters your force.

If you maintain a dead church, contribute to a dead Bible Society, vote with a great party either for the Government or against it, spread your table like base housekeepers,—under all these screens I have difficulty to detect the precise man you are.

And of course so much force is withdrawn from your proper life.

But do your thing, and I shall know you.

Do your work, and you shall reinforce yourself.

A man must consider what a blindman’s-buff is this game of conformity.

I hear a preacher announce for his text and topic the expediency of one of the institutions of his church.

Do I not know beforehand that not possibly can he say a new and spontaneous word?

Do I not know that with all this ostentation of examining the grounds of the institution he will do no such thing?

Do I not know that he is pledged to himself not to look but at one side, the permitted side, not as a man, but as a parish minister?

He is a retained attorney, and these airs of the bench are the emptiest affectation.

Well, most men have bound their eyes with one or another handkerchief, and attached themselves to some one of these communities of opinion.

This conformity makes them not false in a few particulars, authors of a few lies, but false in all particulars. Their every truth is not quite true. Their two is not the real two, their four not the real four: so that every word they say chagrins us and we know not where to begin to set them right.

Meantime nature is not slow to equip us in the prison-uniform of the party to which we adhere.

We come to wear one cut of face and figure, and acquire by degrees the gentlest asinine expression.

There is a mortifying experience in particular, which does not fail to wreak itself also in the general history; I mean “the foolish face of praise,” the forced smile which we put on in company where we do not feel at ease, in answer to conversation which does not interest us.

The muscles, not spontaneously moved but moved by a low usurping willfulness, grow tight about the outline of the face, and make the most disagreeable sensation; a sensation of rebuke and warning which no brave young man will suffer twice.

Excerpt from Frost’s “Paul’s Wife”

To drive Paul out of any lumber camp
All that was needed was to say to him,
"How is the wife, Paul?"--and he'd disappear.

[The lumberjacks discuss whether Paul has a wife and later some see them together….]

Next evening Murphy and some other fellows
Got drunk, and tracked the pair up Catamount,
From the bare top of which there is a view
To other hills across a kettle valley.
And there, well after dark, let Murphy tell it,
They saw Paul and his creature keeping house.
It was the only glimpse that anyone
Has had of Paul and her since Murphy saw them
Falling in love across the twilight millpond.
More than a mile across the wilderness
They sat together halfway up a cliff
In a small niche let into it, the girl
Brightly, as if a star played on the place,
Paul darkly, like her shadow. All the light
Was from the girl herself, though, not from a star,
As was apparent from what happened next.
All those great ruffians put their throats together,
And let out a loud yell, and threw a bottle,
As a brute tribute of respect to beauty.
Of course the bottle fell short by a mile,
But the shout reached the girl and put her light out.
She went out like a firefly, and that was all.

So there were witnesses that Paul was married
And not to anyone to be ashamed of
Everyone had been wrong in judging Paul.
Murphy told me Paul put on all those airs
About his wife to keep her to himself.
Paul was what's called a terrible possessor.
Owning a wife with him meant owning her.
Either to praise her or much as name her,
And he'd thank people not to think of her.
Murphy's idea was that a man like Paul
Wouldn't be spoken to about a wife
In any way the world knew how to speak.

http://www.famouspoetsandpoems.com/poets/robert_frost/poems/735

REMINDER  / REVIEW

Chapter Titles from THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE

Habit 1: Be Proactive
Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Habit 4: Think Win/Win
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Habit 6: Synergize
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw

WRITING ASSIGNMENT: 150-250 WORDS ON FROST’S “Paul’s Wife