“Dad, can we talk?”
“Sure, Rick. What’s up?”
“Something happened after football practice today. I don’t
know how to handle it.”
“Tell me about it.”
“A bunch of us stopped at the convenience store by the
school and bought some snacks. A couple of the guys hid part of what they took
and didn’t pay for it.”
“Shoplifting.”
“Right. The guys didn’t take much, but they did steal. Do I
need to report them to somebody?’
“What do you think?”
Rick hesitated. He’d been wrestling with that question all
afternoon. “Well…what they did was wrong, but if I report them to the school or
the coach or the store-owner, there is going to be a big deal over something
that seems small.”
“The store-owner won’t think it is small, especially if it
happens over and over again. The owner puts in a lot of work. He deserves to
get paid for that.”
“But if I tell on them, they may get into big trouble. We
are teammates, and they may never trust me. If I don’t tell, I am almost as bad
as they are, going along with it.”
“What if you didn’t name the players, but gave the
store-owner some money to cover what was taken?”
“I don’t think I should have to pay for what they did.”
“How about calling him anonymously?”
“He probably has caller ID. It seems a bit cowardly, too.”
“You’d like a way to help him prevent theft, without
getting your friends in trouble, right?”
“Yes. I could talk to the owner and tell him what is
happening, but refuse to name the thieves.”
“That would help. What do you think of the kids who do
this?”
“I will trust them less in the future, myself.”
A few days later, I stopped by the store and spoke with the
owner, apologizing for what had been done and alerting him to the problem. I
said I did not want to identify the thieves, and he said he understood.
If their crime had been more serious, I think I would have
named names.
Though they remained my teammates, I felt a little less
friendly toward them. I certainly would not want to leave my wallet where they
could get at it unobserved.
Moral: Honesty is the best policy.
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