“Outside of a dog, a book is man’s best
friend. Inside of a dog, it’s too dark to read.”
Groucho
Marx
“I’m
so miserable without you, it’s almost like having you here.”
RELATIONSHIPS Statistic
Pew Research Center (2014): 66% of adults are
married or in committed relationships. 10% of them say the Internet has had a
major impact on their relationship, 17% a minor impact, and 72% no real impact
on their relationship. Of those who said it had an impact: 74% found it
positive, 20% negative, 4% both. Younger respondents found the Internet more
impactful than did older.
Chapter 3:
Relationships
Relationships
are about sharing. When there is give and take, and mutual care for each other,
you’re in a good relationship.
How
do you define your relationship? Is there care, trust, unity, relatedness,
communication, motivation, enjoyment, contribution, certainty, security,
challenges, love, and respect?
I’ve
found over the our past 29 years of
marriage and 2 two wonderful children
that the more trust, honesty and understanding you give in a relationship, the
more you get.
I’ve
also learned that the more rules you create in a relationship, the easier your
heart will be broken and your frustration frequency
will escalate.
When
the relationship becomes about rules, and not about love,
your relationship may suffer.
Also
know that if you ever feel that you’re not enough and may not be loved, it is
you who needs to believe that you are enough and that you have plenty of love
to share. Since you can’t control other people’s perceptions and emotions, it’s
up to you to show them, so that they can emulate you and return the love.
Above
all, love yourself first. Then share the love.
Read
through these postings with the above in mind, and think of what you would say
to each of these individuals.
Edison
R. Guzman
#10
My
boyfriend wants to take a break after 2 years, he says he needs space. I've
heard he's been talking to someone else :(
#13
how
do you fix a broken heart *sigh*
#14
People
don't understand me and it makes me sad and depressed.
#16
Why
do women bitch about not finding the right guy when they do nothing but hook up
with assholes??? As far as I'm concerned those who do complain deserve to
suffer the bullshit that they deal with from any asshole that mistreats them.
#19
My
boyfriend wants to have a 3way wit me n my befriend
Wat
should I say I don't want to lose him
#29
tired
of being taken advantage by men they just can’t appreciate a good woman
#31
Poeple
who play games get played.
#39
i
m very frustrated from my life ,i got married one year back my mother in law is
very dominating by nature she always imposed her wishes on me she interfering
all the time i cant live this kind of life what to do
#40
frustrated
with one side love i try to hate that girl but i can't what can i do she
sucking my blood...............
#41
The
worst part of wanting to submit something here is that I'm afraid to speak
freely because he might be surveilling me. Fun. But yeah, my life sucks, and
yeah, I could change it, but it's not easy, and I'm scared. And every day the
stuff that sucks becomes more irreversible. It's such a waste because I have so
much to give, but it just sits here rotting.
#42
I
am frustrated. Four to five months I've tried to make it work and he just
doesn't want it but he's been too lackadaisical to just call it off. He doesn't
want to come off as the bad guy but he really is one!! I've given so much and
he hasn't.
#44
I
want to date, but I don't even know how to get started!! I'm almost at my
breaking point...it's been 2 years and I'm only 21!
#51
I've
waited my whole life for this: I was unemployed for over a year, but finally
got a good job (a career! at last!), my own apartment, and some good healthy
hobbies... but I'm SO frustrated with the dating scene! I broke up with my bf-
even though he was a nice guy, he has issues he wouldn't work on and I couldn't
change, even though I told him they bothered me. I've gone on all sorts of
mixers, speed dating, websites, ect... NOTHING! I know I'm not a drop dead
gorgeous girl, but I'm good looking enough for my friends to ask me to give
them makeovers. When is it ever going to get better? Why does it feel like I'll
never meet someone that's got it (somewhat) together like me?
#52
I
can't get ahead financially, though I've been working 2-3 jobs at a time for
the past 4 years since college.
When
I share my frustrations, all I hear is "be thankful for what you
have," "keep your chin up," etc. As if being thankful or keeping
my chin up will help me buy an engagement ring, or save up for a car and house.
I
appreciate the support my family and friends give me, but what the fuck? Is
that the best advice out there for what no matter how hard you work, you'll
never come out ahead? Perhaps I should just be happy and thankful that I have a
support system to tell me to "just be happy" and "be thankful."
#53
Beauty
is in the eye of the beholder and all colors have turned gray. The world is an
ugly place.
#54
Will
there ever be someone who will just purely judge a person from their heart
rather than their appearance????
#55
I
turn 21 this weekend and want to have a drink for it. My fiance flipped out and
against drinking. I love her and want this relationship to work... but I want
to drink. I've known she was against drinking but I never thought it was as big
a deal as it appears to be, because even one drink is too much. Wish it just
wasn't a big deal.
#57
I
am getting frustreted with my own self.........i have many
girlfriends........and dating atleast 3 at time.......and i had sex with more
than 5.......actually every day i need to be indulge in sex and......due to
that i lost all my interest in life ........and moreover i cant be one girl
guy..........so its badly effect my mental health and my belief for
relationship and its status.............whats the hell........i cant understand
whats happening to me.........n what to do........
#64
It's
been 3 years now in my long distance relationship with someone I deeply care
about. We haven't met in person yet but I really need to be with him this year
if possible since a lot of things are keeping me from making a trip out towards
his end. I know this isn't as bad as most people's posts on their problems, but
I can't help but to let some weight off my chest and keep moving forward
towards my goal to meet someone I love.
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